A Lady in Defiance

Oct 19, 20101 min

Suh, no affront to ma family honor will go unanswered!

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My family, especially on my dad’s side, has always placed a lot of import
 

 
on familial respect — respect for the family, defending the family name
 

 
and other family members, etc. In the past, when this has been challenged
 

 
or undercut in some way, there have been many unreported and, often,
 

 
violent repercussions.

As one story goes, my grandfather, in his late teens or early twenties, was
 

 
going through old Civil War uniforms, weapons, memorabilia, etc. with the
 

 
local dentist’s son. At some point, the dentist’s son made a slight against
 

 
my great-grandma which my grandfather found particularly offensive.
 

 
Among the Civil War relics was a sword which my grandpa happened to have
 

 
been holding at this precise moment; within a matter of seconds, my
 

 
grandfather had stabbed through the boy’s thick leather cowboy boots,
 

 
through his foot, and deep enough into the floorboard that the sword
 

 
couldn’t be removed easily. After the sword had been removed and it was
 

 
time for my grandpa to be reprimanded, the dentist simply told his son (not
 

 
my grandfather) that he shouldn’t have been playing so roughly with the
 

 
Civil War relics.

When my grandpa tells the story, he always chuckles when he gets to the
 

 
actual stabbing part; every time, he mentions that back then cowboy boots
 

 
were made from very thick cowhide leather — not like today — so it’s
 

 
super impressive that he was able to stab not only through the boot, but
 

 
also so deep into the floor that it was hard to remove.

-Heather Harris

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